God and I

Very unusual topic but a very very interesting one......My conversation with god started just few years back......before that I never believed that God exists....But then slowly and gradually i started believing in him....In the same manner when we start remembering him in the times of sadness and sufferings,i remembered him.....And then he waived his magic wand and suddenly my sorrows disappeared, if this is what you think than you are WRONG....Instead, after years of conversing with God and praying in front of me has taught me that God is not a magician...He has already decided your destiny and fate and everything will go accordingly...however,he has also given you power to change your fate and make your destiny.....It's just that we dont use that power ,infact we are not even aware of that power.....There is no use in crying in front of God that he you have not given me this thing,you have not given me that thing...If we learn to appreciate whatever he has given to us and are ready to part with it whenever he demands then there is no reason for us to be sad.....there is an old saying "tera tujh ko saunp doon,kya lage hai mera....mera mujh main kuch nahin jo hai sab tera"....But then in today's materialistic world how many of us think about this....We are busy in making money and we think of God only when we suffer from pain......He is asking only one thing , just give him love and remember him everytime....Previously i always asked god, why have you snatched my most precious gift from me? and i always get one reply that"everything that happens , happens for good"...And this statement is TRUE.....Just wait for the right time and God will definately give you what you deserve...he will never see his child suffering from pain for too long.....Although you do have to suffer for your actions...... So, try to converse with God...Make him your friend,your brother, your parents,....Trust in him and always remember that he gives you pain because your actions made him to punish you...accept his punishment because only then you will be sure that he will give you something that will not only bring happiness to your face but will also make your life bright......CONVERSE WITH GOD.

Crushes(I am sure you must had one or many?)

You both like cricket, listen to the same music, and eat strawberry ice cream with chocolate chips. How could anyone else have so much in common?
He has the coolest hair, and he is so funny, but every time you see him, you feel shy and embarrassed.
You don't even know her, but you feel nervous whenever you see her. Your face feels hot and your cheeks get red.
If a girl or boy is making you feel this way, you might be wondering, "What is going on?" Well, it sounds like you have a crush.
Just as our bodies grow as we get older, so do our feelings. They change and mature as we become preteens, teenagers, and adults. A crush is a word used to describe special feelings you have for another person, a classmate, or friend that you really like. Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in life, because you're beginning to understand how it feels to like another person - a lot!
Sometimes, feelings for a crush can be confusing, because they're new to you, and you aren't sure how to act. You could have mixed feelings. When you see your crush, a part of you might feel embarrassed, and you might want to run away and hide. Another part of you might imagine your crush noticing you and sharing the same feelings.
Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person, and maybe a few that we don't like.You can't choose your crushes. Sometimes they sneak up on you and - wow - who was that? Your crush might be a classmate, a neighbor, your best friend's crush, an older kid, a friend of your brother or sister, a sister or brother of a friend, or a teacher at your school.
Your crush could even be on someone you don't know, like a professional athlete or a celebrity. When the crush is on someone you don't know, you might imagine what that person is like. Maybe you think about what it would be like to meet that person, even though you know you probably never will. It's still fun to imagine!
You might find yourself writing the name of your crush over and over again in a notebook or telling a good friend about that special person you like so much. Crushes might last a few days, weeks, months, or longer.If you feel strange around your crush, you're not alone. That's how most people feel around their crushes. You might feel shy or giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at once! Some people can't remember what they want to say when they see their crush. They feel speechless, or tongue-tied.
Some kids might chase their crushes around the playground, call them on the phone, or tease them to get attention. This might make a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt this way? It can be hard to control how you feel, but the rules of good behavior still apply. If your crush doesn't want to talk with you or it seems like you're making the person uncomfortable, it's time to back off.
Likewise, never let anyone behave in a way that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable. It's never OK for anyone - a kid or a grown-up - to do or ask things of you that don't feel right. That's not a good crush.When you develop special feelings toward someone, it can change your world. You might want to talk on the phone or ask your crush to your birthday party, or a school dance. As you get older, and your feelings change, you might be ready for your first boyfriend or girlfriend, and even your first kiss! But for now, you might just be friends with your crush, if your crush wants to be friends with you.
You might or might not want to tell other people who your crush is. It can be fun to talk with friends about it, but sometimes kids tease other kids about crushes. Getting teased is never fun, so if you know about other kids' crushes, don't give them a hard time!
Some people call first loves or first crushes "puppy love." But when your feelings seem real and strong, it may not seem like puppy love to you. It's called puppy love because these feelings are new to you, you're young, and you don't have much experience with life. You're the puppy! Get it? Think about how a puppy is so excited and happy with everything new in its life - from a rubber bone to an old shoe.
If you need someone to talk with about a crush, a parent can be a good choice. Remember, they were kids once, too, and they know what it's like. Can you imagine who your mom or dad's first crush was? Maybe they'll tell you about it!
What Do I Do When Someone Breaks My Heart?When you have a crush on someone and you find out that he or she likes you, too, it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel heartbreak, those feelings can last for a while, but they will fade.
Another word about heartbreak: Try to be kind if you're on the other end of a crush - when someone likes you. It's a compliment when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to tell him or her in a nice way.
Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last. Someday, you'll be telling your own kids about your first crush!

Love(When it goes away)

The most authentic and pure feeling in the entire galaxy is love....Without LOVE there is no reason for our existence..Love is the most genuine feeling that anyone can feel.So, if you love someone make them aware of your feelings because when someone you love ,leaves,it gives tears to our eyes for our entire life.....No matter how much you try to forget that person,they will keep on coming;in your thoughts,dreams and in your actions....We always cherish them,preserve them in our subconcious mind and then we tell a lie to the entire world that we have forgotten them.How can we do that when we know that they were a part of our life.No matter how short that part of the life was..There are many reasons for lost love....Firstly,if you have mixed a feeling of selfishness,greed in your love.Secondly,if you have not reciprocated the feeling of the other person or if your expectations are too high....There are other reasons as well which are totally external factors...for example some old age moral values which are still governing our lives the way they used to do centuries ago.When the person you love goes away,they leave many things behind....A life without them seems so unfamiliar and then you realize how much they meant to you...But you can't do anything except cursing your fate and destiny....But those who go away never comes back....They only give memories to you...nice memories which you can ignite in a dark corner of your room and play with them,laugh with them and then when after sometime they are burnt into ashes than you can cry your heart out...So before all this happens to YOU just tell the person that you love,that they mean the world to you and without them your world will not be the same.

Relationships

The most complex thing in any human life are relationships....You will never be able to predict what's coming your way in any relationship....they are like babies .you have to take care of them,handle then carefully and let them grow on there own...In the same way as too much expectations spoil the child,too many expectations spoil a relationship too...Have you ever asked yourself what have you got once your expectations are not fulfilled?You get pain...immense pain to tear apart your body....And we get these pains on a daily basis...Still brave we are,we managed to live....I knw its very hard to say DONT EXPECT....But then this is something which comes with experience which comes with practice and once you get it ,i am sure you will always be happy....The key to a good relationship is to give it everything that you have and not expect anything in return and then if you get something back;its for good......So live your life,your relationships and make everyone involved in those relationships happy .....Because this makes sure that you will live in many hearts even after you DIE.

Friendship

Someone has truly sd that "count yr life by smiles not tears,count yr age by friends not years"....I have been lucky enough that i have found some close friends in my life whom i knw will be there for me even if i call them in the middle of night....They are Ajit,Atul,Rajeev and Jaspreet......While the former two are my IHM friends the later two are my childhood friends...I have so many memories with all four of them that sometimes when i sit alone and think about those,they bring joy and happiness on my face....Friendship is something very important in life..Not only its good from personal point of view but also from emotional point of view as well...So guys take time out for yr friends ,meet them and let them know that they mean a lot to you because life is too short and you need a friend to help you in taking those final steps of life....