Follow your HEART

Yup! We all are adults now.....What a pity? that now we will have to live with hypocrites around us, we will have to lie sometime or the other and we will have to put ourselves into this calculative and manipulative world .And moreover we will have to think about making money now.......
Have you ever thought why we were so happy when we were children.....when we didnt know any boundation, when our heart was not filled with greed and hunger(for money and for everything else)? the reason is, that in those days we always follow our heart....whatever we did was governed by our heart....Be it sharing our choclate with our very close friend, be it fighting with him and later apologising, be it crying for that nice toy, or be it wanting to have that nice little dress.
And then we become mature....Our vision changed and we started seeing all the things in two perspective...One which is good for us and two which is not......Suddenly there seems a huge gap between us and out childhood friend...Suddenly we started talking about OUR benefits,our wants and our goals.....And this is the time when we started following our MIND........A mind which is full of greed, full of hypocrisy and lies......and thats how we shape our life and then later we tell to ourselves that we are not happy....Why do we do that when we know that all this is happening only because of ourselves...we only have ourselves to blame for that.....
So the better way to shape our life in a wonderful manner is to go back to our childhood principal and that is FOLLOW YOUR HEART......

What women want?(How much i had to think for this)

Well the most lovely gift from GOD given to mankind is Women......I am sure that the guys will definately agree with me...But then how many of us have ever thought about understanding them? What is it that they need from us ,want from us? And what is it that we fail to deliever? So, let's dig deep into this topic and think hard....And before I do this , if you dont agree with me than I CARE A DAMN because I know that the girls will definately agree....So all the male chauvinist out there, read this and get it into your blood.
The first and the foremost thing that a woman wants is RESPECT.
There is nothing more important than respecting a woman's individuality...We often tend to forget this and the most important reason for this is our overestimated MALE EGO (which we think exists in us.Really?)..We often tend to neglect that a woman has a mind of our own and she should has a freedom to choose whatever she wants...Instead what we do is to impose our decisions and our assumptions on her....And somewhere in this fight the RESPECT looses its way.
Second inportant thing that a woman wants is TIME.
Surprised?Dont be.Sometimes in our race towards our ambitions,or goals and making money we forget that we are running short of time and in our time , our companion must have a pretty share.....But then(Guys,we are) we tend to take them for granted...we tend to forget there existence in our life and we tend to forget that they are not asking for some diamonds or a luxury cruise trip across the world;instead what they are asking is A LITTLE OF YOUR TIME...Time when you can sit with them,love them, listen to them and take off all there problems and there pain and tell them that whenever they need you,you will be there for them.
But ALAS how less we use these words....How unfortunate and over exhausted we are.
Third thing that they want is LOVE & TRUST
Is it something that we dont have?OR is it something that even GOD hasn't given to us....these are the only excuses that we can give...Otherwise there is no way that we cant reciprocate the feeling that they give to us...But then we are so lost in our own fairy tale worlds that we hardly find any time to tell them those three letter words which make them happy....Can you tell me in your last 3 days how many times have you said I LOVE YOU to them?
Have you ever thought why women check our mobile messages or check the list of our last dialled numbers?Why do they ask everytime when they call,where we are?Reason for this is, not having faith and trust in the relationship......FAITH & TRUST , the two basic ingredients of any relationship.But the irony is that most of the times these two are always missing.....It depends on mutual understanding.With Trust comes the Trust......If you are able to trust your girlfriend then i am sure she will also do...If you ask her multiple questions when she goes out with her male office friends than i am sure you must read a book or two about HAVING FAITH...
So guys these are the few things which i believe are on the top priority list of women ....These are something which you can not buy....Try to get these in your blood,in your veins and the day you will get these that will be the day when a new sun will permanently shine on your relationship....So go ahead and understand her,treat her with respect and dignity and after reading this article dont forget to call her and tell her that YOU LOVE HER....

Girls like bad boys.

Well this article is very very important to me because I used to be a REAL BAD BOY in my IHM days( married now so had to change ) and from my experience I can definately say that Girls do like bad boys......And Why? So here is the answer.......
It is nice to be with nice guys, but it's fun to be with the bad boys.
Niceness is a quality that is readily available and it comes too easy at times, but getting the bad guys to be nice to you is where the real fun begins. What makes bad boys interesting than your regular, run-of-the-mill, tie-pant guy is the fact that they are not afraid of taking risks. They will bravely tread where no man has been before. With more stories to tell about the places they've been to and the people they've met, a bad boy will always have an edge over our straight-laced, early to bed, early to rise kind of a man. At least bad boys have more to talk about than the lastest deal they've cracked in office! A bad boy will never let you lose interest in him and will never give away his game till the end. Bad boys know their minds and they make sure you know that too. Full of confidence (and at times full of himself) a bad boy will never seem unsure of himself and the decisions he takes. Also, he will never look back and regret his decision and that's what makes women believe that the bad boy will also stand up for her and defend her when she needs a man to lead her and take the decisions for her. It's the power and confidence that they exude that makes us women go drool, drool, drool! However, the problem with the Bad boys is that their confidence often turns into selfish arrogance. Fortunately or unfortunately for men, women still set their standards by the books and the heroes they've read about. Women love challenges and there is no greater challenge for a woman than to try and change a man's ways. Yes, we've heard the one about being able to change a man only when he's in his diapers! It is probably the hope that lies deep down inside every woman that makes them believe that that a bad boy will change from a boy to a man and be only her's. She takes it as a challenge to be the only woman in his life who he truly fell for and changed for. She showers him with unconditional love with the hope that someday when he wakes up to realise how much she loves him, he'll always stick by her. A woman's greatest fantasy would be to realise that a man changed for her love, thereby making her feel like a winner. Sigh! Although this rarely ever happens, but some women prefer to learn it the hard way!