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Monday, June 06, 2005

What women want?(How much i had to think for this)

Well the most lovely gift from GOD given to mankind is Women......I am sure that the guys will definately agree with me...But then how many of us have ever thought about understanding them? What is it that they need from us ,want from us? And what is it that we fail to deliever? So, let's dig deep into this topic and think hard....And before I do this , if you dont agree with me than I CARE A DAMN because I know that the girls will definately agree....So all the male chauvinist out there, read this and get it into your blood.
The first and the foremost thing that a woman wants is RESPECT.
There is nothing more important than respecting a woman's individuality...We often tend to forget this and the most important reason for this is our overestimated MALE EGO (which we think exists in us.Really?)..We often tend to neglect that a woman has a mind of our own and she should has a freedom to choose whatever she wants...Instead what we do is to impose our decisions and our assumptions on her....And somewhere in this fight the RESPECT looses its way.
Second inportant thing that a woman wants is TIME.
Surprised?Dont be.Sometimes in our race towards our ambitions,or goals and making money we forget that we are running short of time and in our time , our companion must have a pretty share.....But then(Guys,we are) we tend to take them for granted...we tend to forget there existence in our life and we tend to forget that they are not asking for some diamonds or a luxury cruise trip across the world;instead what they are asking is A LITTLE OF YOUR TIME...Time when you can sit with them,love them, listen to them and take off all there problems and there pain and tell them that whenever they need you,you will be there for them.
But ALAS how less we use these words....How unfortunate and over exhausted we are.
Third thing that they want is LOVE & TRUST
Is it something that we dont have?OR is it something that even GOD hasn't given to us....these are the only excuses that we can give...Otherwise there is no way that we cant reciprocate the feeling that they give to us...But then we are so lost in our own fairy tale worlds that we hardly find any time to tell them those three letter words which make them happy....Can you tell me in your last 3 days how many times have you said I LOVE YOU to them?
Have you ever thought why women check our mobile messages or check the list of our last dialled numbers?Why do they ask everytime when they call,where we are?Reason for this is, not having faith and trust in the relationship......FAITH & TRUST , the two basic ingredients of any relationship.But the irony is that most of the times these two are always missing.....It depends on mutual understanding.With Trust comes the Trust......If you are able to trust your girlfriend then i am sure she will also do...If you ask her multiple questions when she goes out with her male office friends than i am sure you must read a book or two about HAVING FAITH...
So guys these are the few things which i believe are on the top priority list of women ....These are something which you can not buy....Try to get these in your blood,in your veins and the day you will get these that will be the day when a new sun will permanently shine on your relationship....So go ahead and understand her,treat her with respect and dignity and after reading this article dont forget to call her and tell her that YOU LOVE HER....

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yeah this is sumthing which everyone of us are aware about but what i believe in is that Love, Trust, Faith and understandng are attributes which can be developed with time. Its just about giving time to the relationship that you are into. Things settle down gradually.

Anonymous said...

after i read this from you i was sure you understand girls too weell. sure that all the girls like all taht but i am sure all the guys out there wld surely want the luv, time and attention along with faith and trust from their gals so i wld say it is something both of them need