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Friday, June 03, 2005

Girls like bad boys.

Well this article is very very important to me because I used to be a REAL BAD BOY in my IHM days( married now so had to change ) and from my experience I can definately say that Girls do like bad boys......And Why? So here is the answer.......
It is nice to be with nice guys, but it's fun to be with the bad boys.
Niceness is a quality that is readily available and it comes too easy at times, but getting the bad guys to be nice to you is where the real fun begins. What makes bad boys interesting than your regular, run-of-the-mill, tie-pant guy is the fact that they are not afraid of taking risks. They will bravely tread where no man has been before. With more stories to tell about the places they've been to and the people they've met, a bad boy will always have an edge over our straight-laced, early to bed, early to rise kind of a man. At least bad boys have more to talk about than the lastest deal they've cracked in office! A bad boy will never let you lose interest in him and will never give away his game till the end. Bad boys know their minds and they make sure you know that too. Full of confidence (and at times full of himself) a bad boy will never seem unsure of himself and the decisions he takes. Also, he will never look back and regret his decision and that's what makes women believe that the bad boy will also stand up for her and defend her when she needs a man to lead her and take the decisions for her. It's the power and confidence that they exude that makes us women go drool, drool, drool! However, the problem with the Bad boys is that their confidence often turns into selfish arrogance. Fortunately or unfortunately for men, women still set their standards by the books and the heroes they've read about. Women love challenges and there is no greater challenge for a woman than to try and change a man's ways. Yes, we've heard the one about being able to change a man only when he's in his diapers! It is probably the hope that lies deep down inside every woman that makes them believe that that a bad boy will change from a boy to a man and be only her's. She takes it as a challenge to be the only woman in his life who he truly fell for and changed for. She showers him with unconditional love with the hope that someday when he wakes up to realise how much she loves him, he'll always stick by her. A woman's greatest fantasy would be to realise that a man changed for her love, thereby making her feel like a winner. Sigh! Although this rarely ever happens, but some women prefer to learn it the hard way!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

helloozzz,
matlab bhai now we have to accept the fact that though u r a BAD guy but still u have qualities of a GOOD writer,,,,,iam sure that u have a fair idea of a term called WHAT WOMEN WANT......anyways i should say that this was one of the best article of yours take care of your goodself & please pour some more information to us ...CHEERS

Anonymous said...

hey Abhishek!

Wuteva u've written is absolutely correct, no two thoughts to it. Me being a girl can very well relate to it. Yes we girls often like boys who are tough enough to handle, the reason could be quite illogical as we might have instances in life where there would have been an opportunity to get a guy who's is considered to be THE GUY in the unsiverse, and this particular guy is ready to do anything to get you, still it doesn't appeal us as this kinda material is sumthing readily available and we would want sumthing unique and extraordinary. What a pity! Sometimes i fail to understand this, but yes this is one of the bitter facts of life and we confused headed souls fail to understand this and all this is for a simple sheer reason that we are driven by emotions. We often tend to overlook what our mind and instinct says and end up in loosing the best in life which was so easy to capture. When often in Two Minds for a thing, its better to chuck it and look for sumthing else.

keep up the good work!
take care