आओ फिर से प्यार करें

आओ फिर से प्यार करें

फिर से मैं उस पेड़ के नीचे, तुम्हारा इंतज़ार करूं

और फिर से मैं कुछ मुड़े तुड़े नोटों से जेब अपनी भरूं

और पूंछू तुझसे

" कॉफ्फी पियोगी मेरे साथ"

गुजरू उसी साइकिल पर, फिर तेरी गली से

और देखूं तुझे गेट पर, उसी पीले कुर्ते में

फिर पौन्छु आंसूं तेरे, अपने हाथों से

फिर तेरे होंटों पर अपनी हंसी रख दूं

फिर से जाऊं तेरी बुआ के यहाँ

और पाऊँ न तुझे जब वहाँ

पूंछू तेरी बेहेनों से की तू है कहाँ

फिर गुजारूं रातें फिल्म देखकर

फिर तेरे हाथ से एक कप चाय का पीयूं

पडूं जो कभी बीमार तो तीमारदार तुझे बनाऊं

थक जाऊं कभी तो, ठंडी हवा की बौछार तुझे बनाऊं

फिर दूं पार्टी तेरे जन्मदिन पर

फिर से छुपकर तुझसे, तेरे दोस्तों को बुलाऊँ

आये जो ईद कभी, तो फिर पहुंचु तेरे घर पर

और छुप कर सबसे तेरे गालों पर ईदी दे जाऊं

और जब आये दीवाली, तो जिद करून तुझसे नए कपड़ों की

और फिर पेहें कर उनको सबके सामने इतराऊँ

फिर से जी लूं उस हसीं शाम को

फिर तेरे होटों की गर्मी अपने होटों पर ले आऊँ

फिर से में महसूस करून, तेरे बदन की हरारत को

फिर से अपने आगोश में तेरा जिस्म समेट लूं

सोचता हूँ अकेली रातों में

छत को तकते हुए में

की फिर तेरे साथ के वो सारे साल जी जाऊं.

दुशाला

आज फिर से चरखा निकला है

और फिर से उठाये हैं

कुछ बीते हुए नरम पलों के गुच्छे

इन्हें सुलझा कर, एक गरम दुशाला बनाऊँगा

और सहेज कर रख लूँगा उसको.

जब आँखों में वक्त की परतें जमने लगेंगी

जब चेहरे से उम्र का बोझ छलकने लगेगा

और जब जीवन की दोपहर ढलने लगेंगी

तब उस दुशाले को निकाल कर ओढ़ लूँगा

और जाते हुए वक्त को पकड़कर फिर से जवान कर दूंगा

फिर से जी लूँगा अपने बचपन को, अपने शैतान लड़कपन को

और प्यार भरी जवानी को

और जब आँखें धुंधलाने लगेंगीं, तो उसी दुशाले को ओढ़ कर

एक लंबी नींद सो जाऊँगा.

तेरी याद

दर्द-ए-दिल के आईने से,

तस्वीर-ए-यार जाती नहीं

मर मर के जीते हैं यहाँ

एक सांस अटकी है जो जाती नहीं.

दिन में तेरा एहसास

हमें जीने देता नहीं

रातें तनहा गुज़र जाती हैं

तू आँखों के सामने आती नहीं

घुल चूका है अक्स तेरा

मेरे वजूद-ए-तश्ना में

दे के गयी है जो ज़ख्म तू

क्यूँ आके उन्हें भर जाती नहीं

वो बीते पल याद आते हैं

जो हर पल आंसूं दे जाते हैं

अकेले यूँ जीना आसान नहीं

क्यूँ फिर भी मौत आती नहीं.

Khwab

चुटकी भर ख्वाब हैं बस,बूँदें हैं, आबशार हैं सब

करम ऐ आशिकी है जो ये रह गए , वरना जिंदगी ले गए थे, वो गए थे जब.

ख्वाब तो फिर भी ख्वाब ही हैं,

क्या सच्चे और झूठे क्या.

ख्वाबों की तामील हो हर पल,

ऐसा मैंने सोचा कब.

पलकों के इस गाँव मैं लेकिन,

ख्वाब जब उनके बसते थे,

ईद सा हर दिन होता था,

ये गाँव मेरा वीरान था कब?

चुटकी भर ख्वाब हैं बस,बूँदें हैं, आबशार हैं सब.

एक रोज़ जो मेरे होटों पर,

होटों को रख तुम बोले थे,

"एक सांस में तुमको दे रही हूँ"

मेरा जीवन जी लो अब.

चुटकी भर ख्वाब हैं बस,बूँदें हैं, आबशार हैं सब

अब जो मेरे साथ नहीं तुम,

बस एक ये एहसान और करो,

एक सांस जो तेरी जी रहा हूँ,

उसको वापिस ले लो अब

चुटकी भर ख्वाब हैं बस,बूँदें हैं, आबशार हैं सब

करम ऐ आशिकी है जो ये रह गए , वरना जिंदगी ले गए थे, वो गए थे जब.

Wo Ek Kamra

Us ghar ko waapis paana chahta hoon
Main us ek kamre main mar jaana chahta hoon.


Kadi doop main, aag ugalte suraj ke tale
Papa ke mehnat thee un deewaron mein
Har rang ke saath, kuch aashayein
Kuch sapne the maan ke

Un sapno, us mehnat ko waapis paana chahta hoo
Main us ek kamre main mar jaana chata hoon

Jiski chat par, sajayee thee jhhalrein maine hare peele kuch bulbon ki
Jis par haat se rakhe the diye maine deewali ke
Jiske saamne udaye the rocket kuch
Aur jiske farsh par chalayee thee khoob chakkarghinniyan

Us diwali ko, un phuljhadiyon ko, waapis paana chahta hoon
Main us ek kamre main mar jaana chahta hoon

Jiski deewaron par phenke the rang gulaabi laal
Jiske aangan main manayee thee holi har saal
Fir thak kar jiske aagosh main sota tha main
Jahan befikr rehta ghoomta tha main

Un holi ke rango se jindagi bharna chahta hoon
Main us ek kamre main mar jaana chahta hoon

Jiski gali main khelta tha main cricket,
Jiski god main thak kar main aata tha
Jo mere har sapne har dukh ka hamsaaya tha

Main us ghar ko waapis paana chahta hoon
Main us ek kamre main mar jaan chahta hoon

Jis ghar main pehchaana tha maine maut ko
Jahan uthaya tha maine kandhon par mere maa, papa ko
Us kamre ko ek baar fir paana chahta hoon
Main usi zameen par sar tika kar, sona chahta hoon

Us kamre main jahan basi hain
Aakhri ssansein mere har keemti ristey ki
Us kamre ke haathon main, apni aakhri saansein lena chahta hoon

Main us ek kamre main mar jaan chahta hoon

Bachpan Ki Yaad

Sardiyon ki dhoop main
jarur koi baat hai.
Guzre lamhon ka is se
Kuch to saath hai.

Dhalti dhoop main, school se aana
maa ki parosi tehri se , matar ke daane hatana
Kabhi moongfaliyon ke daano ko
gud,namak se khana
aur kabhi amrood ke faank par masala lagana.

khushq se hote haathon par
wo maan ka tel lagana
aur sarson ki us badboo se
kabhi maan se ladna aur kabhi lipat jaana.

Mausi ke chat par chatai bichana
urud ke daal main saag
aur ghee ki roti wala khana.
bhai ki masti aur didi ka satana.

sardiyon ki is dhoop main jarur koi baat hai.
baher to dhoop hai magar andar barsaat hai.

NEHA ( My Childhood Devil)

Well, here I am yet again!!!! This time I thought that I should write about my childhood friend…( Although this wonderful thought came after lot of sarcastic comments and reminders from her; how much I hate her for that)
Anyways, let me introduce NEHA, my childhood friend. I wouldn’t write her full name because somehow, I have always felt since childhood that her surname doesn’t justify her beautiful and cute personality.
I have known her since she was three and me six .Our child hood was always full of fights and ……fights and ……fights. But still I wonder why I always waited for her to come back to Aligarh. Why I always felt bad on the day she was supposed to go back. Although, I never admitted that in front of her, nor will I do so even if she calls me up. As they say, childhood is pure innocence. Our friendship was just like that; innocent and beautiful. And then the worst time came. We grew up and distances came in between us. There were times when we even lost touch with other. I am amazed that even at those times we knew one fact; that in time of need, we will always be at each other’s side.
One interesting fact is that I even tried to flirt with her. I would say it’s not my fault. Anyone could fall for that beautiful and innocent face. ( I shall still support my fact that she is on the chubby side of life and she is NOT sexy).However, much to my satisfaction she decided to dump me after she realised that it was just a flirt.
I still miss her devil ways with me. I still miss being with her and discuss things. We are now too engrossed in our lives but the fact remains the same, that we are there for each other.
Also, she is one of the few people who call me ASHU…..A name I have almost forgotten. I love listening that name from her. It brings me back to my childhood, my hometown, my home, my parents and most of all my lost innocence.
She has seen much about relationships and there complexities at such a tender age. But I am happy that this chapter of her life brought to me a new side of her personality, I never thought existed. That being a sentimental side. I hope she has learnt her lessons now and move forward.

A Poem

Bhagwaan ki krip se hum ho gaye dhanwaan,
Dhanda achcha hai hamara aur khoob bada makaan.

Iksha hai choti se hamare dil main
Ki aayenge bhagwaan ed din hamare bhi sapne main
Aur maangege hum paisa paisa bahut sa paisa.

Poora hua khwab ye apna
Humko ek din aaya sapna
sapne main the bhagwaan khade
humse bole maang bachche

Hoton main the shabd ade
hum the bas chupchaap khade
Bol na paaye hum khuch unse
aankhon se do aansoon gire

Haar kaha bas humne itna
de do humko bachpan apna
wo naani ki god
wo papa ka sath
wo sardiyon ki dhoop
wo garmiyon ki raat

aankh khuli to toota sapna
hum the saath main saaya apna

us din dil jee bhar kar roya
kitna thoda paaya
aur bahut khuch khoya.

Last Kiss

Last time when we met, she had tears in her eyes.She was speaking through her silence, her tears and her eyes....And I, ............I didn't speak at all..
How much I wanted to hold her in my arms, how much I wanted to see her, feel her....But I couldn't do anything.....
Then she turned around , and a tear fell from my eyes and my breath left me ....
She stopped , placed her lips on mine and whispered in my ears "I'am giving you one breath of mine, Live it"
Since then, I have been living her life, everyday, every moment.....
I can still feel the warmth of her lips on mine, I can still see her, feel her
Every breath that I take is the one given to me by her, it keeps on coming , keeps on going
Every time when I breathe, I owe my LIFE to her.

Past will always be with you

It really doesnt matter how hard you may try to run away from your past; it will always be with you.You may not find it in your routine day to day affairs, but it will be there in yr heart as a moment seized in all its colours and feelings.That moment which only you had experienced in your life.....That moment which belonged to you ...That moment which will be with you throughout yr life.....And no matter how hard you might have tried to run away from it, you live it again and again , sometimes or the othere....So, if you have that wonderful moment from your past than let it flow freely in your veins, let it get mixed with your blood and feel it everytime it reaches your heart.Because thats the time when you will relive your past and you will be with the person with whom you are not anymore.....
That moment in which a 17 year old girl said to a 18 year old boy that she loves him....That moment in which those young lovers spent there lives together....That moment when they became one.....That moment in which they seperated from each other with tears in there eyes and silence in between......

Follow your HEART

Yup! We all are adults now.....What a pity? that now we will have to live with hypocrites around us, we will have to lie sometime or the other and we will have to put ourselves into this calculative and manipulative world .And moreover we will have to think about making money now.......
Have you ever thought why we were so happy when we were children.....when we didnt know any boundation, when our heart was not filled with greed and hunger(for money and for everything else)? the reason is, that in those days we always follow our heart....whatever we did was governed by our heart....Be it sharing our choclate with our very close friend, be it fighting with him and later apologising, be it crying for that nice toy, or be it wanting to have that nice little dress.
And then we become mature....Our vision changed and we started seeing all the things in two perspective...One which is good for us and two which is not......Suddenly there seems a huge gap between us and out childhood friend...Suddenly we started talking about OUR benefits,our wants and our goals.....And this is the time when we started following our MIND........A mind which is full of greed, full of hypocrisy and lies......and thats how we shape our life and then later we tell to ourselves that we are not happy....Why do we do that when we know that all this is happening only because of ourselves...we only have ourselves to blame for that.....
So the better way to shape our life in a wonderful manner is to go back to our childhood principal and that is FOLLOW YOUR HEART......

What women want?(How much i had to think for this)

Well the most lovely gift from GOD given to mankind is Women......I am sure that the guys will definately agree with me...But then how many of us have ever thought about understanding them? What is it that they need from us ,want from us? And what is it that we fail to deliever? So, let's dig deep into this topic and think hard....And before I do this , if you dont agree with me than I CARE A DAMN because I know that the girls will definately agree....So all the male chauvinist out there, read this and get it into your blood.
The first and the foremost thing that a woman wants is RESPECT.
There is nothing more important than respecting a woman's individuality...We often tend to forget this and the most important reason for this is our overestimated MALE EGO (which we think exists in us.Really?)..We often tend to neglect that a woman has a mind of our own and she should has a freedom to choose whatever she wants...Instead what we do is to impose our decisions and our assumptions on her....And somewhere in this fight the RESPECT looses its way.
Second inportant thing that a woman wants is TIME.
Surprised?Dont be.Sometimes in our race towards our ambitions,or goals and making money we forget that we are running short of time and in our time , our companion must have a pretty share.....But then(Guys,we are) we tend to take them for granted...we tend to forget there existence in our life and we tend to forget that they are not asking for some diamonds or a luxury cruise trip across the world;instead what they are asking is A LITTLE OF YOUR TIME...Time when you can sit with them,love them, listen to them and take off all there problems and there pain and tell them that whenever they need you,you will be there for them.
But ALAS how less we use these words....How unfortunate and over exhausted we are.
Third thing that they want is LOVE & TRUST
Is it something that we dont have?OR is it something that even GOD hasn't given to us....these are the only excuses that we can give...Otherwise there is no way that we cant reciprocate the feeling that they give to us...But then we are so lost in our own fairy tale worlds that we hardly find any time to tell them those three letter words which make them happy....Can you tell me in your last 3 days how many times have you said I LOVE YOU to them?
Have you ever thought why women check our mobile messages or check the list of our last dialled numbers?Why do they ask everytime when they call,where we are?Reason for this is, not having faith and trust in the relationship......FAITH & TRUST , the two basic ingredients of any relationship.But the irony is that most of the times these two are always missing.....It depends on mutual understanding.With Trust comes the Trust......If you are able to trust your girlfriend then i am sure she will also do...If you ask her multiple questions when she goes out with her male office friends than i am sure you must read a book or two about HAVING FAITH...
So guys these are the few things which i believe are on the top priority list of women ....These are something which you can not buy....Try to get these in your blood,in your veins and the day you will get these that will be the day when a new sun will permanently shine on your relationship....So go ahead and understand her,treat her with respect and dignity and after reading this article dont forget to call her and tell her that YOU LOVE HER....

Girls like bad boys.

Well this article is very very important to me because I used to be a REAL BAD BOY in my IHM days( married now so had to change ) and from my experience I can definately say that Girls do like bad boys......And Why? So here is the answer.......
It is nice to be with nice guys, but it's fun to be with the bad boys.
Niceness is a quality that is readily available and it comes too easy at times, but getting the bad guys to be nice to you is where the real fun begins. What makes bad boys interesting than your regular, run-of-the-mill, tie-pant guy is the fact that they are not afraid of taking risks. They will bravely tread where no man has been before. With more stories to tell about the places they've been to and the people they've met, a bad boy will always have an edge over our straight-laced, early to bed, early to rise kind of a man. At least bad boys have more to talk about than the lastest deal they've cracked in office! A bad boy will never let you lose interest in him and will never give away his game till the end. Bad boys know their minds and they make sure you know that too. Full of confidence (and at times full of himself) a bad boy will never seem unsure of himself and the decisions he takes. Also, he will never look back and regret his decision and that's what makes women believe that the bad boy will also stand up for her and defend her when she needs a man to lead her and take the decisions for her. It's the power and confidence that they exude that makes us women go drool, drool, drool! However, the problem with the Bad boys is that their confidence often turns into selfish arrogance. Fortunately or unfortunately for men, women still set their standards by the books and the heroes they've read about. Women love challenges and there is no greater challenge for a woman than to try and change a man's ways. Yes, we've heard the one about being able to change a man only when he's in his diapers! It is probably the hope that lies deep down inside every woman that makes them believe that that a bad boy will change from a boy to a man and be only her's. She takes it as a challenge to be the only woman in his life who he truly fell for and changed for. She showers him with unconditional love with the hope that someday when he wakes up to realise how much she loves him, he'll always stick by her. A woman's greatest fantasy would be to realise that a man changed for her love, thereby making her feel like a winner. Sigh! Although this rarely ever happens, but some women prefer to learn it the hard way!

God and I

Very unusual topic but a very very interesting one......My conversation with god started just few years back......before that I never believed that God exists....But then slowly and gradually i started believing in him....In the same manner when we start remembering him in the times of sadness and sufferings,i remembered him.....And then he waived his magic wand and suddenly my sorrows disappeared, if this is what you think than you are WRONG....Instead, after years of conversing with God and praying in front of me has taught me that God is not a magician...He has already decided your destiny and fate and everything will go accordingly...however,he has also given you power to change your fate and make your destiny.....It's just that we dont use that power ,infact we are not even aware of that power.....There is no use in crying in front of God that he you have not given me this thing,you have not given me that thing...If we learn to appreciate whatever he has given to us and are ready to part with it whenever he demands then there is no reason for us to be sad.....there is an old saying "tera tujh ko saunp doon,kya lage hai mera....mera mujh main kuch nahin jo hai sab tera"....But then in today's materialistic world how many of us think about this....We are busy in making money and we think of God only when we suffer from pain......He is asking only one thing , just give him love and remember him everytime....Previously i always asked god, why have you snatched my most precious gift from me? and i always get one reply that"everything that happens , happens for good"...And this statement is TRUE.....Just wait for the right time and God will definately give you what you deserve...he will never see his child suffering from pain for too long.....Although you do have to suffer for your actions...... So, try to converse with God...Make him your friend,your brother, your parents,....Trust in him and always remember that he gives you pain because your actions made him to punish you...accept his punishment because only then you will be sure that he will give you something that will not only bring happiness to your face but will also make your life bright......CONVERSE WITH GOD.

Crushes(I am sure you must had one or many?)

You both like cricket, listen to the same music, and eat strawberry ice cream with chocolate chips. How could anyone else have so much in common?
He has the coolest hair, and he is so funny, but every time you see him, you feel shy and embarrassed.
You don't even know her, but you feel nervous whenever you see her. Your face feels hot and your cheeks get red.
If a girl or boy is making you feel this way, you might be wondering, "What is going on?" Well, it sounds like you have a crush.
Just as our bodies grow as we get older, so do our feelings. They change and mature as we become preteens, teenagers, and adults. A crush is a word used to describe special feelings you have for another person, a classmate, or friend that you really like. Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in life, because you're beginning to understand how it feels to like another person - a lot!
Sometimes, feelings for a crush can be confusing, because they're new to you, and you aren't sure how to act. You could have mixed feelings. When you see your crush, a part of you might feel embarrassed, and you might want to run away and hide. Another part of you might imagine your crush noticing you and sharing the same feelings.
Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person, and maybe a few that we don't like.You can't choose your crushes. Sometimes they sneak up on you and - wow - who was that? Your crush might be a classmate, a neighbor, your best friend's crush, an older kid, a friend of your brother or sister, a sister or brother of a friend, or a teacher at your school.
Your crush could even be on someone you don't know, like a professional athlete or a celebrity. When the crush is on someone you don't know, you might imagine what that person is like. Maybe you think about what it would be like to meet that person, even though you know you probably never will. It's still fun to imagine!
You might find yourself writing the name of your crush over and over again in a notebook or telling a good friend about that special person you like so much. Crushes might last a few days, weeks, months, or longer.If you feel strange around your crush, you're not alone. That's how most people feel around their crushes. You might feel shy or giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at once! Some people can't remember what they want to say when they see their crush. They feel speechless, or tongue-tied.
Some kids might chase their crushes around the playground, call them on the phone, or tease them to get attention. This might make a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt this way? It can be hard to control how you feel, but the rules of good behavior still apply. If your crush doesn't want to talk with you or it seems like you're making the person uncomfortable, it's time to back off.
Likewise, never let anyone behave in a way that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable. It's never OK for anyone - a kid or a grown-up - to do or ask things of you that don't feel right. That's not a good crush.When you develop special feelings toward someone, it can change your world. You might want to talk on the phone or ask your crush to your birthday party, or a school dance. As you get older, and your feelings change, you might be ready for your first boyfriend or girlfriend, and even your first kiss! But for now, you might just be friends with your crush, if your crush wants to be friends with you.
You might or might not want to tell other people who your crush is. It can be fun to talk with friends about it, but sometimes kids tease other kids about crushes. Getting teased is never fun, so if you know about other kids' crushes, don't give them a hard time!
Some people call first loves or first crushes "puppy love." But when your feelings seem real and strong, it may not seem like puppy love to you. It's called puppy love because these feelings are new to you, you're young, and you don't have much experience with life. You're the puppy! Get it? Think about how a puppy is so excited and happy with everything new in its life - from a rubber bone to an old shoe.
If you need someone to talk with about a crush, a parent can be a good choice. Remember, they were kids once, too, and they know what it's like. Can you imagine who your mom or dad's first crush was? Maybe they'll tell you about it!
What Do I Do When Someone Breaks My Heart?When you have a crush on someone and you find out that he or she likes you, too, it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel heartbreak, those feelings can last for a while, but they will fade.
Another word about heartbreak: Try to be kind if you're on the other end of a crush - when someone likes you. It's a compliment when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to tell him or her in a nice way.
Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last. Someday, you'll be telling your own kids about your first crush!

Love(When it goes away)

The most authentic and pure feeling in the entire galaxy is love....Without LOVE there is no reason for our existence..Love is the most genuine feeling that anyone can feel.So, if you love someone make them aware of your feelings because when someone you love ,leaves,it gives tears to our eyes for our entire life.....No matter how much you try to forget that person,they will keep on coming;in your thoughts,dreams and in your actions....We always cherish them,preserve them in our subconcious mind and then we tell a lie to the entire world that we have forgotten them.How can we do that when we know that they were a part of our life.No matter how short that part of the life was..There are many reasons for lost love....Firstly,if you have mixed a feeling of selfishness,greed in your love.Secondly,if you have not reciprocated the feeling of the other person or if your expectations are too high....There are other reasons as well which are totally external factors...for example some old age moral values which are still governing our lives the way they used to do centuries ago.When the person you love goes away,they leave many things behind....A life without them seems so unfamiliar and then you realize how much they meant to you...But you can't do anything except cursing your fate and destiny....But those who go away never comes back....They only give memories to you...nice memories which you can ignite in a dark corner of your room and play with them,laugh with them and then when after sometime they are burnt into ashes than you can cry your heart out...So before all this happens to YOU just tell the person that you love,that they mean the world to you and without them your world will not be the same.

Relationships

The most complex thing in any human life are relationships....You will never be able to predict what's coming your way in any relationship....they are like babies .you have to take care of them,handle then carefully and let them grow on there own...In the same way as too much expectations spoil the child,too many expectations spoil a relationship too...Have you ever asked yourself what have you got once your expectations are not fulfilled?You get pain...immense pain to tear apart your body....And we get these pains on a daily basis...Still brave we are,we managed to live....I knw its very hard to say DONT EXPECT....But then this is something which comes with experience which comes with practice and once you get it ,i am sure you will always be happy....The key to a good relationship is to give it everything that you have and not expect anything in return and then if you get something back;its for good......So live your life,your relationships and make everyone involved in those relationships happy .....Because this makes sure that you will live in many hearts even after you DIE.

Friendship

Someone has truly sd that "count yr life by smiles not tears,count yr age by friends not years"....I have been lucky enough that i have found some close friends in my life whom i knw will be there for me even if i call them in the middle of night....They are Ajit,Atul,Rajeev and Jaspreet......While the former two are my IHM friends the later two are my childhood friends...I have so many memories with all four of them that sometimes when i sit alone and think about those,they bring joy and happiness on my face....Friendship is something very important in life..Not only its good from personal point of view but also from emotional point of view as well...So guys take time out for yr friends ,meet them and let them know that they mean a lot to you because life is too short and you need a friend to help you in taking those final steps of life....